You wonder if your husband only loves you if you have sex with him whenever he wants it.
This makes you feel sad, frustrated, and a little angry.
Because you want to feel loved by him.
Always.
No matter what.
But now, the only way to feel love from your husband is to have sex with him.
Even if you don’t want to.
Trouble is, you most likely won’t feel loved.
And you could end up not loving your husband.
Because it’s hard to feel love for someone who you have to manipulate into loving you.
It is much easier to love someone that shows unconditional love for you.
But let me ask you this:
Do you feel unconditional love for yourself?
Do you love you, even when you let yourself down?
Or do you get frustrated and beat yourself up for not being all the things you want yourself to be?
How can you expect your husband to love you unconditionally when you can’t even love yourself that way?
So, stop worrying about the conditions your husband has on loving you.
It’s time to decide that you are going to get really good at loving yourself.
Unconditionally.
Then, you can give yourself the greatest gift.
Love.
No matter what.