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I Know, But…

  One of my coaches recently pointed out a sneaky phrase many of us say. When you start a sentence with “I know, but…” what
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You Owe It To Yourself

A woman with a low libido went to a therapist for help. “I owe it to my husband to figure this out.” “He deserves better
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What’s Your Sexual Identity?

There are people that run…and then there are runners. There are people that sing…and then there are singers. There are people that write…and then there
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“It’s My Birthday Gift To Me! I’m so Happy!” (Kuzco – “The Emperor’s New Groove”)

Today is my friend’s birthday. She LOVES her birthday. She wants it to be perfect. So, her house has been cleaned. Her gift has been
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His Love For Me Seems Conditional

You wonder if your husband only loves you if you have sex with him whenever he wants it. This makes you feel sad, frustrated, and
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The Arranged Marriage

Is it uncomfortable and difficult for you to love yourself, right now, as you are? Do you find it hard to know what you really
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